Train Your Brain To Lose Weight

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Ever wonder what makes you hungry or crave certain foods? Why you always have enough room for dessert even though you just finished a big meal? Or why you might stand in front of an open fridge full of food and then say, “We have nothing to eat!”? Such is the power of neurotransmitters.


The human brain is composed of roughly 86 billion neurons (nerve cells). These nerve cells communicate with each other via chemical messengers called neurotransmitters. There are two types of neurotransmitters: inhibitory and excitatory. While inhibitory neurotransmitters calm the brain, excitatory neurotransmitters stimulate the brain.

Neurotransmitters affect sleep, mood, motivation, memory, focus, energy, libido, weight, and can cause adverse symptoms when they are out of balance. It’s been estimated that 86% of North Americans have sub-optimal neurotransmitter levels. Stress, lack of sleep, poor diet, addictive substances, and genetic predisposition are all to blame for poor neurotransmitter levels.

How Do Neurotransmitters Affect Weight Loss?

When most of us think of weight loss, we don’t usually think of the brain. The brain, however, has a dramatic impact on body composition. Your appetite is not only a product of your physiology, but also your psychology; it’s a complex interaction of hormones and neurotransmitters.

So which neurotransmitters are the biggest players in weight management? While all neurotransmitters are important, the big “four” are dopamine, acetylcholine, GABA, serotonin, and melatonin. In this article, we will discuss Dopamine!


In terms of weight loss, dopamine is the most important of the four brain chemicals. Dopamine is a unique neurotransmitter in that it can be excitatory or inhibitory, depending on the receptor it binds to. It’s derived from the amino acid tyrosine and is released during gratifying activities, such as food consumption, sex, exercise, and several drugs. The function of dopamine is diverse as it plays a role in pleasure/reward, mood, attention, and motor skills.

Those low in dopamine often use foods and stimulants to get them through the day. The problem is that most of the foods and stimulants people crave – chocolate, candy, diet sodas, coffee, or energy drinks – lead to unhealthy eating habits and obesity. Each of these substances actually does boost dopamine production. So in a sense, you are self-medicating correctly, although dangerously. Research shows that dopamine-induced behaviour leads to repeated cravings and overindulgence. Without the right amount of dopamine, you’re never physically and emotionally fulfilled by food, no matter how much you’ve eaten. So you keep eating and eating and eating.

While not enough dopamine can leave you fatigued – craving food and stimulation – too much can cause addictive behaviours. Dopamine is one of the reasons why foods can be addictive. Not surprisingly, almost all abusive drugs and addictive substances, such as alcohol, nicotine, cocaine, and even sugar, influence dopamine production.

The goal for weight loss is to have a dopamine signalling system that regulates and balances your body with sustained energy and motivation. Besides the many pleasures dopamine brings, healthy levels of dopamine naturally suppress appetite and aid weight loss. Just be aware that dopamine does decrease with most weight loss attempts.

To Positively Influence Dopamine Levels

  • Limit your sugar intake: sugar alters brain chemistry by disrupting dopamine levels. That’s why people experience a “sugar-high” shortly after eating sweets. In fact, sugar stimulates the exact same euphoric pathway as alcohol and drugs.
  • Supplement with l-tyrosine: since tyrosine is the building block of dopamine, supplementing with tyrosine can help increase dopamine production. An even better choice is acetyl-l-tyrosine, which is a more bio-available form. 
  • Eat foods high in tyrosine: bananas are an exceptional food for regulating dopamine because they have a high concentration of tyrosine. Other foods known to boost dopamine levels include almonds, apples, beets, watermelons, cherries, pumpkin seeds, sesame seeds, yogurt, beans, eggs, fish, and meats.
  • Limit caffeine: just like sugar, coffee offers only temporary relief. After experiencing the initial kick caffeine offers, dopamine levels in the body decrease. So, go for a cup of decaf instead if you have already had your morning fill.
  • Avoid stress and relax: Neuro-slim CBT tools, meditation, self-reflection, hot bath, or a massage are all activities that increase dopamine levels.

To learn more about how Neuro-Slim CBT tools can increase your dopamine, leading to sustainable weight loss results, watch my latest webinar: The Neuro-Slim Solution!

You Are Not Your Depression

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Let’s be honest… It’s more than just being blue.

It is a New Year, but I don’t feel any different. You might be thinking, “I don’t want to set goals – I can’t even stick to something for a few hours.” I am sick of all the New Year, New You quotes flooding social media. If you resonate, keep reading. 

After the year that we had, it might be that you feel depressed, (like many women I have worked with last year). You are not alone. Everyone at some point has felt down. It’s only natural to feel this way after a difficult or stressful life experience (or year for that matter). 

But depression is more than just being sad. It’s like a thick fog that disrupts your thinking, emotions and behaviours and distorts your perception of yourself and the world around you. Depression is experienced differently by different people. Sometimes, it can emerge from a mix of issues or experiences, but sometimes there’s no obvious reason. Depression can have tragic outcomes to your health and fitness – without proper help. 

But there is good news! Together, there is plenty we can do to manage your depression. Remember the fog can clear. And I am here to show you how. 

What you might not know about depression:

  1. Roughly 1 in 10 people will experience depression over the course of their life.
  2. Women are twice as likely to develop depression
  3. Over half of people diagnosed with depression also suffer from anxiety
  4. Physical exercise has been found to have a great antidepressant effect

What Does Depression Look Like?

To take on and beat depression, you have to know what it looks like. Not one case of depression is the same as someone else’s. However, depression will usually include a some of the following symptoms, over an extended period of time.

  • Feelings of emptiness, worthlessness & hopelessness or feeling numb inside.
  • Loss of energy, constantly feeling tired.
  • Oversleeping or not sleeping enough.
  • Overeating or loss of appetite.
  • Loss of enjoyment
  • Difficulty concentrating/focusing

Reflection Time:

Detached from other people
When did you last feel truly connected to other people?

Detached from meaningful work
Do you enjoy your job? Does it give you some sense of control and purpose?

Detached from meaningful values
Do you know what gives your life meaning beyond the materialistic and superficial?
Do you live in alignment with this?

Detached from nature
When did you last feel truly connected to nature & your natural environment?

Detached from past hurt
Have you confronted and unpacked your past trauma/difficult/stressful moments?

Detached from a hopeful future
Do you feel like you have the ability to impact your future in a positive way?

Detached from status & respect
Do you exist in a space where you feel respected and have the power to influence outcomes?

How to Manage Depression?

Get out of your head and into your body. 

Exercising, listening to music, connecting with nature and being outdoors in sunlight can help to improve mood – yes even in the winter! Experiences that help us connect with our body in a positive and relaxing way such as yoga, massage and dance have also been shown to be effective in changing mood states. (It doesn’t have to be all about “weight training.”)

Connect and talk.

Spend time with people who support and understand you and make you reconnect with feelings of hope. This could be friends, family or myself as your mentor and coach.

Looking For a Depression Solution That is Personal + Private?

I am here to help you combat depression using a range of evidence-based approaches, including mood enhancing nutrition and exercise programming, and positive – strength based coaching using cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). If you are ready, please send me a message and we can start your Private Coaching – let this be the year that YOU choose YOURSELF!

My One Wish This Christmas…

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My one wish for Christmas, is for you to let go of what you think a fitness transformation is supposed to be and embrace the one you are on… by listening to your HEART.

(Post is dedicated to J.T. Bibby)

I originally told myself that I would be taking the day off… It’s Christmas and only 4:30am. With no responsibilities today, I gave myself an all-access pass to relax and sleep in. Since that didn’t happen, I began my morning with a coffee, and read my Grandfather’s journal. (I received them last night from my Mum as a Christmas gift). For those that do not know me very well, my Grandfather past three years ago at the age of 96. He was my best friend. Today, he spoke to me, just like he did each and every day he was alive. He spoke to me through his journal entry, talking about the hearts anatomy and physiology.

I see it now Grandad, how you used the heart as a metaphor for life. I want to share what I believe my Grandad was talking about back in 1949 and apply it to my love for health and fitness.

Here it goes:

You have a heart that is currently thumping away, beating to its own drum. (Pause for a moment and place your palm against your chest – feeling your beautiful unique heartbeat). Right now, your heart holds a set of lyrics, waiting to be sung. Right now, your heart has built walls, so that you can be brave. It wants you to show up with bravery, so you allow others to be brave as well.

Your heart makes you authentic. Trading in your heart for a replica of someone else’s may induce anxiety, depression, disordered eating, addiction, rage, blame and resentment. Sacrificing your own beating heart for the sake of what you think you should “look like” just isn’t worth it.

Being true to your HEART is the best gift you can give yourself, and the people you love. When you no longer try to be perfect from head to toe, embodying thinness, kindness and modesty to everyone, you will have more time, attention, love and connection for the IMPORTANT people in your life.

Allow your heart to guide your health and fitness goals. Allow your heart to pump authenticity and bravery into your day. Go against the grain of “fitness culture” and put heart at the forefront of your day.

This Christmas, ask your heart:

  1. Who do I become when I feel my fitness goals are threatened? Who do I become when I feel backed into a corner of shame, guilt and sabotage?
  2. How do I protect myself?
  3. Who do I call to help get me through my mess and turmoil?
  4. What is the bravest thing I could do for myself when I feel like giving up?

The Truth:

Your heart is not meant for the fly-by night fitness transformation coaches that are popping up on social media left, right and centre… promising the world. (Your heart knows better – listen to it).  Your heart is first and foremost meant FOR YOU! To allow your heart to be trusted with a coach should NEVER be taken lightly. It is a privilege, for that coach.

Ask yourself before you hire or seek out any coach in 2021…

Do I believe they have earned the right to hear my heart’s story?

You do not need an army to protect and serve your heart. You do not need social media gratification or shout outs from your coach (that is only to boost their heart’s ego – not yours). Your heart deserves more – way more than what you have been giving it. Honour your heart – honour your health – honour your life.

I hope that in time, your heart begins to trust me. That I earned the right to hear your story, and help you fulfill your hearts unique health and fitness desires in 2021.

Merry Christmas from my heart to yours.

Jill Bunny



The Mental Health Benefits of Working Out

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Working out is beneficial for your physical health, but research shows it can also improve your mental health. People that regularly work out report several benefits of exercise such as feeling less stressed and anxious, being more self confident and happier.

Your mind and body are very closely linked, and exercising can not only make you feel physically stronger but can mentally keep your mind healthy.

Benefits of Working Out

Release of Endorphins:

Exercising makes us feel good due to neurochemicals, known as endorphins, that are released in our body. Endorphins are known as natural pain relievers that can reduce pain and boost pleasure, and increase feelings of well-being contributing to many mental health benefits.

Stress Relief:

Endorphins are crucial in reducing stress levels in our body, and so working out is a great way of de-stressing. Staying active will help your body relax and relieve any tension from your muscles.  This mean you are more likely to have a better quality sleep and diet, feel overall happier and be more productive throughout the day.

Try this:  After a work out session, spend a good amount of time stretching out your body, as stress may cause muscle tension especially around your neck and shoulders.

Alleviates Anxiety:

Following a regular workout routine can be a natural and efficient way to treat anxiety. The endorphins released in your body when you are exercising relieve tension and boost feelings of well being including greater physical and mental energy.

Try this:  While working out, try focusing on different bodily sensations rather than zoning out. By doing this, you will enable yourself to be more mindful and appreciate the feelings that you are experiencing when you are working out. This way you will be able to disconnect from your continuous worries and be fully present.

Reduced Symptoms of Depression: 

Research shows that regular exercise can reduce symptoms of mild to moderate depression. Exercise promotes changes in your brain; neural growth, reduced inflammation, and the formation of new activity patterns that make you feel calm and relaxed.

It promotes feelings of wellbeing due to the release of endorphins and other neurochemicals that make you feel well, and distract you from negative thoughts. You might even experience “runners’ high. Interestingly, studies suggest that exercise is as effective as antidepressants on alleviating the signs of mild to moderate depression.

Try this:  It is important that you have an workout schedule you are comfortable with so you can maintain it, as it will prevent you from relapsing.


When you are consistently following your workout routine, it allows you to feel a sense of achievement.  If you are struggling with low self-confidence and self-esteem exercise can have a positive impact on your self-confidence, as your physical strength and body improve.

Try this: Workout for 20-30 minutes regularly and pick an activity you enjoy so you are more likely to continue working out.

Book a free discovery call, I am here to listen to your story and explain how my services can support you.

Let me help you feel better.

Get Control Over Food With The Regular Eating Method


When wanting to make changes to your eating habits, the best advice I can give is to start with “The Regular Eating Method.” This is the most significant change you can make when it comes to tackling the unhelpful eating habits you want to kick to the curb.

Over 30 years of research in the field of food psychology concludes that introducing patterns of regular eating will help diminish unwanted eating habits. To get started on “The Regular Eating Method” follow the guidelines below:

Plan Ahead

At the beginning of each day (or the night before) plan in advance when you are going to eat your meals and snacks. If you are working with me 1-to-1 we can use your monitoring worksheet.

At all points in the day you should be aware of when you are going to have your meals and snacks. There will be times where your day will be unpredictable. When this happens, plan ahead as far as you can.

Adopt The “No Choice” Phrase

No Choice, eat each of your planned meals and snacks and nothing in between.

Do your best not to skip any of your meals and snacks or add in extra nibbles when not planned. Try to break long periods of time into more manageable chunks of no longer than 3 to 4 hours. This will help with reducing unplanned eating or giving into those pesky cravings.

Make Your Plan Should Be More Flexible Than Rigid

It’s important that you adjust times of your meals and snacks to suit your day to day schedule. However, do try to establish as regular a pattern as possible.

Do Not Leave More Than 4 Hours Between Meals and Snacks

Long gaps between mealtimes create psychological and physiological pressure to eat that can eventually throw you right off track. Therefore, it would be wise to eat at regular intervals, with a 4-hour gap being the maximum.



Now that we have the guidelines set, how can we monitor progress with implementation of The Regular Eating Method?

Each week ask yourself the following questions:

  • Each day, am I planning regular meals and snacks?
  • Am I trying to stick to the set plan?
  • Am I skipping any of the meals and snacks?
  • Are there gaps between my meals and snacks longer than 4 hours?
  • Am I eating between my meals and snacks?
  • Am I getting back on track when things don’t go to plan?
  • Am I adjusting the timing of my meals and snacks to accommodate events and circumstances?

Most people that start The Regular Eating Method will spend quite a few weeks following the guide and using the reflection questions before moving onto what to eat. This method will help you prepare for upcoming dietary changes, that will help  you think gain control over food. The added bonus? Your body will change, and you will be able to maintain the fit, healthy physique you are desperately wanting!

Since you may have had unwated eating habits for quite a while it is really important that you make the most of this opportunity to change, otherwise the problem is likely to persist. Making changes will be hard work but it will be worth it. The more you put in, the more you will get out.

This September, I have opened up 3 spots for the exclusive 1-to-1 coaching. If interested please send a message to inquire about reserving your spot.


The Weight Loss Solution That No Trainer Promotes…

A Weight-Loss Confession

This is the first time ever publicly telling my story; but Jill has helped me see the beautiful person I always dreamed of being. 48 years old, and for the first time in my life – I am happy with my body. I am happy with who I see in the mirror; but that wasn’t always the case – frankly, before I worked with Jill, I hated myself so much that I honestly wished I wasn’t alive. It pains me to write this and I actually deleted it 10x. But I wanted to tell the truth, because this might help someone who is reading this right now.

I didn’t know what value I had or why I was sticking around on this earth for. I was overweight – yet starving myself in the day – and binging at night. I would wake up with guilt every morning, shower as quick as I could because I hated touching my body with the wash cloth or catching a slight glimpse of my rolls in the mirror. I would put my make-up on in 2 minutes because I detested looking at myself. I would wear baggy clothes so that nothing would touch my body. I hated every minute I was awake. I kept thinking to myself, was this what life was all about?

I tried diet after diet, and nothing worked. I was a serial coach “hopper”, looking for the quick fix. I would be on a “diet” for 7 days, go on a “cheat” because it was allowed – then struggle all week to get back on track. I would be embarrassed so would just stop contacting my coaches, and would try to diet on my own. I would always resort to starving myself, thinking that was the answer. I felt like a complete failure  – and I couldn’t do another diet and fail. I was afraid of what I would do next.

Back in January, I had a coffee with my friend (way before COVID) and she said that I should reach out to Jill. I hesitated and had every excuse – but my friend said, if you have one last shot – I would bet on Jill. (No pressure haha). I thought, what have I got to lose. I gave Jill a call, and we had a great talk. I had a gut feeling that she was the right coach – and I put my trust in her.

Throughout our 20+ weeks together, I completely changed the way I have ever thought about myself. Did I mess up? HECK.. More than once! But that was the best part – I made mistakes and had the right coach to help me through it. I sabotaged myself, felt like quitting, but I stuck with Jill. The weekly calls were my savour. There were times that I didn’t want to book in – but I did anyway. Jill has taught me that food and training is more than just a “plan.” She helped me look at my old beliefs and what as keeping me stuck in my “rut.” Some of the things we implemented were:

  • Scheduled in “worry time”
  • No Choice – workouts / meals to adhere to during the week. (I had a minimum I had to hit each week – which helped, since I always felt that if I didn’t follow the plan I failed).
  • Structured social media time – I actually even went on my social media during a call – and we navigated how to use it to motivate me then compare! (This was a really insightful lesson).
  • Experimented with Negative + Positive Reinforcement – to see what worked better for me.
  • CBT worksheets / homework
  • Workouts – a variety of options depending on how I was feeling
  • Response cards – I started to write sentences down that were not “affirmations” (never believed them!) I wrote down realistic responses to my negative thoughts. Call these the “Mood Changers”
  • Read my Advantages list EVERY Morning! I had to – it was on my mirror – so it taught me to start spending more time in front of the mirror and not bash myself!

So I guess you are wondering how much weight I lost? How many inches were dropped? Sorry, but that is between Jill and I. This transformation was more than weight and inches – it saved my life. And I don’t want that to be taken away by a number on the scale. If you are struggling – then reach out to Jill and start working with her. But be warned – if you are NOT going to show up, and miss calls, then you are wasting your time. She is ALWAYS there, but expects you to do your part. I love this – because it put responsibility on me to do my part!

Thank You Jen for Sharing your experience, and being so open and honest. I have no doubt that your story will encourage others to try CBT methods for health and fitness transformations/ overall wellbeing. – Jill Bunny

If you are still reading – here is a little more information on CBT:

Research shows that Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is effective for losing weight long-term, stopping binge eating episodes and recovering from eating disorders. CBT is a psychotherapeutic approach to treat eating disorders and involves different techniques. The different techniques allow you to comprehend the interaction between your thoughts, feelings and behaviors, and plan strategies to change negative thoughts and behaviors to improve your mood and health.

Structure of CBT For Fitness

The Cognitive model acknowledges the importance of thoughts (cognitive) and actions (behavior) and how they have an important role in maintaining fitness self-sabotage.

1. Cognitive Factors

Consists of negative:

    • body image
    • self-evaluation
    • beliefs about self worth
    • overthinking your weight and body shape.

2. Behavioral Factors

Consists of behaviours to control weight such as:

    • restraint
    • restriction
    • purging
    • binge eating
    • body avoidance
    • body checking

The Different CBT Techniques I Use:

1. Cognitive Restructuring

You are encouraged to challenge your thinking processes of your self and your body and identify unhealthy behaviors and thoughts that are interfering with your fitness goals. Instead of unhealthy thoughts you will develop new healthy thoughts that will help you to change your perspective of yourself and your body.

2. Coping Strategies

Coping strategies are developed to manage negative emotions such as distractions and urges, but also to prevent negative thoughts in order to cope with overwhelming triggers and feelings.

3. Nutritional / Training Counselling

It is necessary with education to understand your:

  • nutritional needs
  • meal planning
  • monitoring of food choices
  • developing a workout plan that is sustainable

4. Maintenance

Focuses on the skills you will learn through 1-to-1 coaching sessions, so we can develop a long-term maintenance plan. This also includes improvement of self-confidence as you will become more comfortable with the skills you will learn and able to identify triggers to help prevent self-sabotage in the future.

5. Homework Assignments

It is common that CBT is time limited and goal oriented, and also includes tasks you have to complete outside of coaching sessions. CBT requires collaboration between the both of us (yes, I could be your coach!), and an active participation from you as my client.


Are You Ready to Try CBT-Fit Coaching? 

I have received specialized training, and can work disordered eating, body image issues as well as other mental health conditions such as anxiety, depression and trauma as it relates to your fitness goals.

Stop Spending Money on a Fitness Coach Until You…

Ok, I know the title is a little over the top but I needed to get your full attention.

Have I got it?

Great, let’s kick things off!

Listen, I know you have some hefty fitness goals.

I know you want the most rocking summer bod, that will turn heads. (Ok, at least the heads of your husband or that unsupportive friend who never thought you could lose the weight).

I know all this because I have worked with many women just like you, over the past 15 years.

A big dream, and you’re ready to make a life changing transformation. But it’s not happening.
You’re still not achieving the results you really want.
Something is sabotaging your efforts.

You feel like the skinny jeans and crop top tanks are against you!
Not enough weight has been dropped and you’re certainly not happy with the results thus far.
That makes you sad and frustrated.

Most days, you feel like you’re spinning your hamster wheel, not getting very far. I hear ya….it’s a BIG pain in the arse! So you think, “I will get some help!”

You may have thought to yourself:

“I’ll hire a fitness coach, someone who can really help me drop this weight once and for all.”

You google and come across some eye-catching websites, read some FB posts and see a ton of IG “before and after” photos – and you invest.

You invest and you’re ready for the big transformation. Then… week after week, nothing happens.
Crickets – Zero – Nada. Okay, Maybe a couple of inches and pounds are lost. But not what you wanted and certainly not what you had hoped for. You feel so down; as if there’s something seriously wrong with you. If others can get great results, why not you? Maybe you’ve even kicked yourself for falling for another magic plan once again.

If you’ve ever felt like this, you’re not alone!

And after hearing this from one too many women, I knew I had to write about it. You see, I’ve been in the training and coaching field for over 15 years.

I’ve worked my socks off to get experience, knowledge and qualifications and helping my clients get results and nothing pees me off more than seeing really great women like you get sucked into hype, magic pill syndrome.

Good Old Social Proof!

But here’s what I want I want you to know.

Fitness coaching is in crisis right now and I don’t want you to pay one more penny to a coach until you read the next bit (it won’t take long, pinky promise!)

As someone who works with women who want to level up their fitness day in day out, as someone who has worked with athletes, business executives, shift workers and front line staff, I know the power of a health and fitness coach (IT’S HUGE!) but right now, you need to know the top 3 reasons why fitness coaching might NOT be for you… just yet!

Now remember, this is just my take on it but judging from the many women I’ve spoken to and worked with …. This is a problem! But I’m also not a downer so I’m not just about to unload a whole lot of crap into your brain. I will also share how you can make coaching work for you!

1. Every Tom, Dick & Harry is a Fitness Coach

Yep, Tom, Dick and Harry have made an appearance and they are flipping everywhere!

The problem we see is that there are many excellent coaches out there doing their thing.

But, there are a ton of people who see fitness coaches doing really well and think ‘I’ll do that.’ Please know I am not knocking anybody… that is not my style.

But what I do have a problem with is people who are not qualified putting themselves in a position to guide others in their health journey. (This is NOT something to take lightly).

And that is not cool, especially when it comes to someone else’s health. As much as I hate to say this, yes there are unscrupulous people out there who use fake testimonials to bring you into their business and then boom, you’ve spent money on them. That is not right.

To make sure fitness coaching helps you achieve your goals, please do your due diligence and make sure your coach is excellent. It doesn’t have to be about tons of certifications but actually talk to the people featured in their testimonials.

Before you spend your hard earned money on someone, make sure it’s well directed.

I’m scrupulous about making sure women know why they’re hiring me. My strength is in helping women get clarity about what they could be doing to get fitter, helping them define the right nutrition and training protocol, how to implement, and then hold them accountable.

I love helping my women create the mind and body they have always dreamed of.

That’s what I do and if you need something different, then I’m not your coach and I am comfortable with that.

Beware the ‘fitness coach’ who says they can help you with whatever you need!

2. Beware the Snake Oil Charmers

Yes, obtaining a fit-toned body can be hard.

It can be a struggle especially when you’re not clear on how to actually do it. It can be a big pain when you have no plan of action and you are are literally watching weight slowly creep on month after month.

But when you’ve been spinning that wheel for too long and you’re about to give up, that’s when you want the knight in shining armour.

The magic pill. The special snake oil.

The “plan” that will make all your weight disappear. You invest. You do the work (or some of the work if you’re really honest). And you get some results but nothing major.

And you start to wonder if you’ll ever lose the weight.

Let me be the first to say… there is nothing wrong with you; it’s just that you’re looking for something that doesn’t exist.

The truth is there is no magic pill.

And if you’re still looking for it and you’re still investing in coaches to find it, you’re going to spend a whole lot of money and a lot of time still looking. For nothing. There is no magic pill.

What works is consistent action.

Let me qualify that….what works is consistent RIGHT actions.

Focusing on the right things at the right time.

That is the magic pill.

Build consistency in your fitness routine and watch your fitness results appear.

Yes, invest in the skills and knowledge so you are armed with what you need to make sure your results last long-term. The most important thing is you commit to your program and you stick with it!

What makes the difference is you showing up every

day and being consistent and persistent.

3. Hype Never Tells the Full Story

Did you know there is no such thing as overnight success? You probably already know that but yet, we still fall into the trap of thinking it!

I am really tired and fed up of hearing women talk about how they lost weight in matter of weeks. Do you know why I’m tired of hearing it? Because it just isn’t the truth.

Too many important details are hidden in the small print.

I recently did a podcast on how one of my clients reached her 100lbs weight loss goal! I was so keen to emphasize was how long it took her….how long it took to refine the nutrition plan, create a consistent workout routine, and of course how to re-set after a set back etc.

“So, how long did it take? 2.5 years! Now, we are on a one year maintenance-coaching phase. So that his 3.5 years of coaching! Not something that is a big sell to the fitness industry – but it is the truth.” 

Now I dont want to be a Debbie Downer. Yes we know weight loss and transformations can be done quicker but the reality is, it can take a substantial amount of time to instil the necessary habits.

Yes, there are many who seem to have dropped substantial weight in no time at all.

But this is when our comparison-monster rears her head and tells you there must be something wrong with you if you can’t get the same weight-loss results.

But here’s what you need to know….you have no idea as to what that person has done to achieve those results. You do not know their plan, how much weight they had to lose, if they took extra “supplements,” had cosmetic surgery, (or just used a photoshop app) etc.

I know, it’s crazy! Trust me, many of the women I work with fall into this trap. My best advice?

Create a safety word when you start indulging in the comparison monster!!

It is a great way to diffuse that horrible energy! (Mine might totally be Richard- stole it from my bestie hehe). 

It’s NOT Doom and Gloom. Coaching is Actually Amazing!

OK, so by now you know that I believe fitness coaching  is very worthwhile and a great investment for your health… (Heck this is my career).

Fitness coaching can be tremendously transformational and exciting. It helps you take the necessary leaps and bounds in your health and fitness transformation. It stretches you (not like Yoga), and pushes you out of your comfort zones so you start to believe in yourself.

As long as:

  • You don’t just hire any Tom, Dick or Harry
  • You’re not taken in by snake oil charmers
  • And your BS radar is part of your operating system so you can filter out the hype.

I hope this has been helpful…now go forth and be awesome in your fitness journey! You are making strides in optimizing your health and happiness and it’s so important to get the right support for yourself and your fitness goals.

If you’d like to connect with me, I’d love for you to join Team Bunny – if you are ready for a no BS approach to obtaining fitness results!

Lots of Love

Jill Bunny


What I Wish You Knew About Dieting…

There is misinformation everywhere

There’s always a new trend on the block. A new machine, a new exercise, a new pill, a new method. Look into them. Double check them. Reach out to the individual “testimonials” that are on those specific sales pages… oh wait… you can’t, because they are likely fake. (But Jill, it’s a screenshot from a Facebook post! Hate to tell you, but there are apps that create “real looking testimonials.“)

Everyone’s claiming to be experts. Everyone has some kind of certification & credential, but a lot of them don’t know what they’re talking about.

I get it though, both sides of it.

From the business side, that’s what you want to hit on, right? You want to strike at the vulnerabilities, the insecurities, and make promises that are either impossible, or possible but sacrificing something else.

From the woman that wants to lose weight, you take the other side … I want it. I’m desperate. You tell me you have a one month program that will lose me 20lbs and you have some certification and testimonies to back up the claim? I’ll throw money at you. I’m desperate.

If it’s too good to be true, it almost always is. Look deep into the facts. The scientific facts. They’re there, they‘re just not as loud as the diet pills and ab machines. Keep digging, they’re there. Trust them.

Trust the numbers, the body will follow.

The diet and training will be hard at times. There will be days where:

  • It’s tempting to binge.
  • You feel like an absolute train-wreck.
  • You feel like it’s just not worth the suffering.
  • Blaming genetics feels more true then all weight loss programs out there.

And that’s OK. Change isn’t going to be easy; but you will get there. As long as you work towards it every single day. As long as you don’t quit.

You will get there. I am here to help guide you – whether that is through blogs, secret emails, or 1-to-1 coaching. I will make sure that you do not fall into the diet trap EVER AGAIN!

What to do When You ReGain Weight

Frustrated When You Regain Weight?

It is infuriating to put on a dress and realize that you can’t zip it up properly. It’s disappointing when this happens, and you realize that you have regained all the weight you worked so hard to lose. You become full of rage and call yourself a hateful words such as “pig”. Please resist that urge. Many women gain back the weight they lost. Some women gain it back because they stop paying attention to their eating and exercising habits once the weight is gone. Others took part in an unattainable diet and did serious damage to their bodies.

If you want to lose the weight again and keep it off this time, you need to make it a point to lose weight in a healthy manner. You also need to seriously evaluate what worked and did not work when you lost the weight the first time.

Here is what to do if you regained the weight you worked so hard to lose.

1. Forgive Yourself

It is disappointing and frustrating to be back at square one, especially when you worked hard to lose weight. Glaring at the dress that doesn’t fit will not make the extra weight go away. If it did, losing weight would be a effortless. Cursing yourself will not make the weight go away either. All it will do is leave you feeling miserable or irritated. Neither is a good mindset for getting your motivation back. Frustrated with yourself though you may be, you have to forgive yourself if you want to lose the weight again. You have to accept that you made some mistakes, and now you need to re-lose the weight. Take a deep breath. You have proof that you can do this. You lost the weight once. You can lose it again.

2. Learn Why the Weight Came Back

You have gained your weight back. Why? Did you start ordering takeout every other night? Did you remember exactly how much you loved a few glasses of wine at night to unwind? Did you start justifying having that extra serving of cream and sugar in your morning coffee? Did you stop going to the gym? Did you lose weight specifically for an event and then stop paying attention to your habits when it was over?

Weight does not just appear. It creeps up slowly, and it has to come from somewhere. If you have gained weight back, you need to think about where that new weight came from. You cannot correct the problem until you recognize the problem. If you ate poorly, you need to make some healthier food swaps. If you stopped exercising, you need to start scheduling in your weekly workouts. If you went on a starvation diet, you need to understand how badly you damaged your body and metabolism.

3. Evaluate Your Old Methods

If you have regained the weight you worked so hard to lose, the odds are- you want to get rid of it again. In this case, you need to think about how you lost that weight the first time. Did the pounds seem to just melt effortlessly off your body, or was each ounce a struggle to shed? This will help you know what to expect as you work to re-lose the weight.

Think about what your mental state was like when you dieted last time. Did you feel a sense of accomplishment at the end of each day that you stuck to your plan? Did you adjust to your new routine, and after a brief drop, did your energy levels return to normal if not higher levels? This is what should happen when you lose weight in a healthy manner. You will be tired or have low energy for a short period as your body adjusts to burning more calories than you ingest. When you lose weight in a healthy manner, however, you are not running at a massive caloric deficiency. Running a caloric deficit of just two to three hundred calories is more than enough to lose weight at a reasonable rate – but it should not leave you feeling run down and sluggish after you adjust.

If you lost weight at a rate of more than two pounds a week or spent your whole time dieting feeling light headed and tired, you need to change how you lose weight. Losing too much weight too quickly will send your body into starvation mode and can irreversibly damage your metabolism. This makes it almost impossible to keep your weight from creeping back up. This is a common problem with fad diets or diets that promise to help you lose ten pounds in a week by drinking special “shakes” or ingesting “herbal pills.”Losing a large amount of weight quickly makes the body believe that it is in a state of famine, and your body is starving. As such, your metabolism plummets as your body does everything possible to stretch the meager fuel it has to survive the famine. Your body is an incredible machine meant to keep you alive in the harshest conditions.

As well as looking at your eating habits, you need to think about your exercise habits. While working out every day for an hour will definitely help you lose weight, it is unlikely you want to spend that much time in the gym for the rest of your life. Start a workout routine you can keep up with even after you have lost the weight. Working out three to four days a week for thirty minutes is reasonable for most women.

4. Make a Plan

Once you know what went wrong and what to avoid, make a plan for losing this last round of weight. Think about what you can reasonably handle in your life, and choose a reasonable timeframe. Do not expect to be able to stick hard and fast to your plan every day. Build in some time for backsliding and for extenuating circumstances. If you have a crazy week at work, you may not get to the gym as often. If your friend’s birthday is coming up, expect to join the rest of the party in eating cake and drinking beer. Make sure your plan is a healthy plan as well. It can be tempting to lose weight quickly and then try to “fix” your metabolism later. This is not how the body works. You need to accept slower weight loss, and keep your body healthy. Eat good, natural meals instead of heavily processed foods.

5. Prepare for Lifestyle Changes

If you want to keep the weight off once you lose it, you will likely need to make some lifestyle changes. These could be cooking more often instead of living off take-out, or getting up an hour earlier so you can get in a workout before work. Make whatever changes you need to in order to continue living a healthy lifestyle even after the weight is gone. Do not wait to make changes until after you lose the weight. While you are trying to make the lifestyle changes necessary to keep the weight off, it will start creeping back up on you, and soon, you will be right back where you started.

Gaining weight back is frustrating, but there is no reason you cannot lose it again. Make it a point to lose weight in a healthy manner, and make some lifestyle changes. Work your plan, and treat your body right. Do that, and you should fit back in that dress in no time.

5 Thing I Never Say To My Depressed Clients

Depression is a common illness worldwide, with more than 264 million people affected (Quoted from the World Health Organization). Coaches often assume that a comment that might make them feel better on a bad day will do the same for someone who’s depressed. That’s just not the case. Depression is more than the blues. Here are a few statements I refrain from saying to the clients I work with that suffer from depression:

1. I Know Exactly How You Feel.

2. You Need to Exercise.

3. It’s All In Your Head.

4. Just Think Positive.

5. Do You Know How Lucky You Are?


“Learn how to make changes in your thinking so that you can make permanent changes in your eating.”

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